Your toddler is growing up now, and it’s about time that he learn to use the bathroom like the rest of us. Unfortunately, it’s rare that toilet training goes as planned.
Even if you hit a few snags along the way, remember that with some potty training help, your child will eventually get there! After all, you don’t see too many high school kids with baggy or low cut jeans exposing their diapers, right?
If your child is ready to start using the potty, they’ll show some signs like:
telling you when they’re about to go
staying dry for at least a few hours at a time
expressing an interest in how other kids, or even adults, use the bathroom
expressing an interest in “big kid” underwear
asking you to take them to the potty!
If your child shows no signs at all of being ready to potty train, you’re better off waiting until they are. Pushing them now will just make things harder for the both of you.
Assuming your child is ready to be toilet trained, you must commit to giving your child all the potty training help that they need. If your kid is making his “poop” face, you have to get off your butt and encourage him to do his business on the toilet.
If you’re in the middle of making dinner or working, situations like this may not be convenient for you – but since you’re a parent you’re probably already used to being inconvenienced!
Always keep your cool – no matter how much poop you have to clean off the couch!
It’s important for you to understand that potty training is just as stressful for your child as it is for you. There’s a good chance that your child feels a little disappointed when accidents happen, so the last thing they need is to see their parents or caregivers get upset.
What you should do instead is acknowledge the mistake, get your child to help you clean up the mess, and encourage them to let you know the next time they feel like they have to “go pee-pee” or “go poopy”.
Anytime your child does alert you to the fact that they have to go, they should be awarded with lots of praise, even if they don’t actually do anything in their potty. Obviously, using the potty calls for even more praise, and possibly a reward.
Some rewards you may want to try, and incentives to bribe your child with:
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colorful stickers on a potty chart
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mom or dad doing a special potty dance
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new “big kid” underwear
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a movie, book or toy about using the bathroom
If you want to use rewards and incentives to encourage your child, let them choose which sticker they want, or what underwear to buy. Children always like being given the opportunity to choose!
Helping your child learn to use the bathroom is both extremely frustrating and extremely rewarding. Obviously, the benefits of the latter always outweigh the stress of the former. Giving your child all the encouragement and potty training help they need will make this sometimes difficult process more enjoyable for the both of you.


