Like most guys who have a problem picking up women, I bet that you don’t have a clue what you’re doing wrong. The honest truth is that women don’t like men who are of a lower status than them. Some examples of this are: men who are shorter than them, men who make less money, etc.
You as a man, have to be selective in choosing women. I hate to sound harsh but aim too high and you’ll likely be disappointed, although this isn’t always the case it’s usually true. Women respond to men they have a gut level attraction to.
How can you make a woman feel this way? As a woman, I can honestly say it’s all about looks, body language, and flattery. Work these three angles and you’ve got a pretty good chance of scoring a date.
First off is the looks – make sure you’re well groomed and neat looking because if you have inch long nose hairs or have food all over your mouth you’ll get turned down left and right. Its common sense that different women have different preferences, so don’t be offended if you’re not her type.
Next is body language. You want to relax yourself as much as possible because your nerves will only turn her off – it gives off a bad vibe. When you approach her you want to stand close enough so that she knows you’re not just being friendly, but not close enough to offend. You should also make deep eye contact, which shows confidence, and stand up tall.
Now you need to work on the flattery. Most of the first conversation should be about her, because people (women especially) find themselves very interesting. It’s funny but true. Say nice things to her but try to be original about it. When you give her sincere and original compliments, she knows you’re actually taking an interest in her and you’re not blindly begging for sex.
If she stays in the conversation with you, you should continue talking for 5-10 minutes and ask for a date. This way you’ll leave her wanting more, and that’s a good thing. If she’s not really into you, cut your losses and leave. You can always try again with someone else. If, you get really unlucky and she laughs rudely in your face, this means she’s insecure and loves to make other people feel bad. That’s not the type of woman you want to be with. If this happens, you can leave nicely and be a gentleman about it. You can also get back at her by saying something like “Okay, I’ll leave. But as a favor to everyone you talk to in the future, please learn to brush your tongue. It will really help with your bad breath.”
In conclusion, once you find women who might be interested in you, you stand a much better chance of winning them over with good grooming habits, confident body language, and sincere interest in her (flattery). Good luck!